Edilix's Insight Article Series - 3
SETTLING DOWN & ADJUSTING IN AMERICA
by Kadam Chudgar
Edulix Member,
(2001) Graduate student
ITT Chicago
USA
One major advice I would like to give to new students is do not
freak out with the freedom you get here. Remember what you are here
for in the first place. One more thing, watch your waist line here
and exercise in the gym as the food here is so delicious that it
can make you fat without you realizing it.
I feel that the worst part of a student’s life here is cooking
for himself/herself. The trick is making friends with people who
are good cooks. I worked in the college cafeteria three days a week
and I made friends with the cooks there who lived nearby and also
other servers like me. They used to invite me frequently to their
homes for dinner on holidays and other days. So I got to sample
different cuisines from different countries like Mexico, China and
Middle East. I, being a food lover, totally loved the whole experience.
Moreover, I had different kinds of friends from different countries.
This is what made it so exciting. We would totally freak out in
the weekends doing all kinds of stuff like going for movies, driving
to a nearby place and spend the weekend there. I was in Denver,
so one weekend we drove to Aspen, Colorado and we had great fun
learning hot to ski and taking photos of each other falling and
in all kind of funny positions. Personally, I think none of us learned
how to ski and believe me, it is very hard. But the amount of fun
we had has been worth the money and the time we spent. It was truly
an experience of a lifetime.
One other funny instance I could remember is going to an Irish
pub, having Guinness (which was actually quite good) and dancing
and singing till late night as it was karaoke night that night.
On Mexican Independence Day, my Mexican friends and me had Tequila
shots and Mexican food the traditional Mexican way. I loved that,
too. Please note that drinking in the U.S. is prohibited for everyone
under 21 years of age. So undergrads, please do not try this as
it would get you into trouble.
As you see, my experience in Denver has been so much fun. The climate
here has been excellent, professors great and the people simply
marvelous. I have made many lifelong friends here and now
it is very difficult for me to leave Denver for Chicago.
My advice for all new foreign students is that involve yourselves
in college activities beside studies and you are sure to make many
friends and get popular. Also, do not hang out with just students
of your community, but reach out to students of different countries
and you will learn a lot more than you can possibly imagine.
Yalcin from Edulix Team had once rightly advised me that
one aspect to grad school was networking. It helps after you graduate
if you have good contacts.
US education is not only about studying hard and getting jobs.
It also teaches you some lifelong values and you should also definitely
enjoy yourself here.
Especially for people suffering from culture shock
and home sickness, it is all a state of mind so do not worry
it will pass away.
I would like to wish all future students of this great country
the best of luck and hope that all of you reach here safely and
enjoy the experiences as much as I am.
I was privileged to have so many friends and relatives in America
before coming here so the transition was very easy for me. But I
believe that it is still my responsibility to share and help my
fellow students in any possible way. I hope you will do the same
to help other students once you make it for yourselves.
And, I would like to thank Edulix for allowing me to share
my experiences with all of you whoever could benefit from it. I
will be providing my two cents on some tips during application process
and traveling to the US... See you soon!
Kadam Chudgar
Graduate student
ITT Chicago
USA
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